How to Have Phone Sex
Sometimes it is just too difficult to get together with your woman when your cock is hard. Finding alternative, spontaneous, exciting sexual things to do can really satisfy that craving. One great thing to do is pick up the phone and get into some audio stimulation. Learning how to have phone sex is easy and fun. For long distance relationships it is practically a must. Either way, get a little creative with your sex life and start dialing.
Make a Date
If it happens spontaneously, great, however making a phone sex date with your woman will give her and you something to look forward to.
Prepare the Scene
Before you strip, dial and stroke you will have to make sure you are in the best environment where you will be comfortable and uninterrupted. Shut off your computer and/or additional phone, dim the lights, lock the door and get naked.
What to Say
Do not get into anything boring or negative like the color of her new shoes or how she hates her boss. Instead, let her know how much you miss being with her. Tell her how her eyes, lips, hair and skin are all you could think about throughout the day. When a woman feels genuinely wanted it fills her heart as well as her panties. Begin by asking her what she is wearing. She may be in torn pajamas but hopefully she will get creative (as you should). Talk about how your cock is growing just hearing her voice. Ask her to peel off that bra or underwear but not to take off her panties all the way and instead pull them aside or just down around her thighs. Tell her you are taking out your now hard cock and beginning to stroke it wishing her hand and mouth were gliding along it instead. Tell her to massage her breasts and describe if her nipples are hard.
Sensual Talk
As you go through the visual talk begin adding sensual talk. This should include all your senses so describe your glistening tongue brushing along her erect nipples; the feeling of her moist pussy on your lips; the sweet smell of her breath and body; the sound of her moans and the taste of her skin. Also, do not forget to get loud with moans and grunts. This talk drives women crazy.
Stay Open Minded
Remember this is fantasy land so letting your or her freak flag fly is about building trust and excitement. She may talk about another woman or man joining in or how she likes to finger her asshole. All these things can be in good fun or possibly explored later but either way do not freak out and end up ruining a good thing because of your insecurity.
Keep your instincts and your manners in check while attempting how to have phone sex. Using coarse words such as cunt, bang and blow my load can be a real turnoff. Also, incorporate toys, if you have ‘em, use ‘em.