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Okay guys, for those of you out there who care enough to find the right technique to sexually satisfy a woman let me suggest, from a female perspective, that you DO NOT use porn as a reference!   It’s not that we don’t like everything that goes on in those videos but you have to keep in mind, the “actors” starring in those movies are paid to be there, they are paid to make everything look pleasurable.  I know of too many men who go to an older male hero for advice on how to please a woman and almost always porn is used as a possible guideline.  Yes, there are a few moves that can prove to be very appealing but if you really want to know how to be great in bed, get out of the adult section of the video store and read on…

One of the main things that you have to realize when it comes to females is that it does take us significantly longer to reach orgasm than it does you guys out there.  In a recent study the average time it took for a woman to come was 11 minutes, for males it was 3.  Knowing that information, one of the first things you should work on is trying to control your orgasm!  If you find that you are coming before she is a majority of the time than that right there is a big problem that needs to be addressed.  There are several different exercises that promote longer sexual endurance in males as well as vitamins and lotions that can be used.  It’s best that you look into what could possibly help you in achieving the stamina needed to ensure you get your lady off!

Foreplay is another essential element with regard to pleasing the ladies!  Because it does take us longer to be aroused to the point of orgasm, foreplay is a must for getting her natural juices flowing and getting her ready for penetration!  If she isn’t wet enough before you actually enter her it can actually be quite painful, and there is nothing pleasurable about that!

Oral sex is an absolute must!  The clitoris is the most sensitive part of the female body and needs to have attention paid to it if you want to give her a mind blowing orgasm!  It can also come in handy if you are working on controlling your orgasm and still need a little time in order to perfect it, oral sex can bring her close to orgasm so by the time you do enter her and you’re ready to blow, she’ll be ready to orgasm as well!

Asking her what it is that pleases her the most in the sack is the best way to ensure that you do exactly what she needs in order to orgasm!  Communication truly is the key and she’ll be more than happy to let you know.  The fact that you even inquire as to how to please her will be a turn on in itself, it shows that you’re not just all about you.

There are several different references you can use to find the best technique to sexually satisfy a woman.  Learning about the female body and how it works is a great start as it will help you understand what you need to do to get her going.  And I don’t believe there is porn out there who can teach you the right way to get your woman off!