This article was written by Jordan

Ah, the impossible task; or so it may seem. Most of all men in the world fantasize about having a threesome with two beautiful women and assume it will never happen. They’ve been scared shit-less to mention it to their girlfriend or wife for years and they are sure they’re doomed forever to only wonder of what this would be like. Well, it’s not so impossible if you know how to go about it. Here are some tips for breaking the ice and figuring out just how to get her to have a threesome.

Step 1: Breaking the Ice. The scariest part is getting to break the ice and have your girlfriend or wife admit she finds another woman attractive. There are many ways to do this. If you watch porn together or think she might watch it with you, you can see her inhibitions lower as she gets sexually excited. It’s like having her drunk. When she’s that turned on she’ll start admitted what she likes and doesn’t like about the scenes you watch. You can also do the “top 10 list” of famous people you find most attractive but make your lists include 5 males and 5 females, it will make her describe to you why she finds certain women sexy and you can play off of that in the future.

Step 2: Once you hear her loosen up a bit and talk about sexy women in front of you, slowly ease into some preliminary questions. Subtly ask while you’re both sipping on wine one night, “So if we HAD to invite someone into the bedroom, which girl off your list would you pick”? Asking very “game show” like questions won’t make her feel like it’s a proposition right away and just let her indulge in a fun fantasy with you.

Step 3: After a while of all the talk, put her to the test. When you’re out at a bar with a group of friends, suggest a “shot game”. Use it as a sort of truth or dare. You can make the rules however you want. Say, “I dare (my girlfriend and so and so) to kiss for 5 seconds or they owe everyone at the table a round of shots”. Or, “If (my girlfriend and so and so) don’t kiss on the lips they have to take a Prairie Fire shot” (or something else hard to take).  Doing this with a group of people who are a little buzzed is the perfect way to see if she’ll let loose and kiss another female in front of you.

Step 4: Feel her out about her new kissing friend. If you do this a few weekends in a row she might get really into it and like kissing other girls for your viewing pleasure. When having sex next, tell her to talk to you about it and let you know what she liked about it, how it felt, etc. Always have this be about HER and the other girl and never selfish on your part. It of course is deep down but never let her know that. Feed into HER desires and fantasies and slowly work your way to ask her if she’d ever like to take it farther than a kiss at the bar.

These ways to break the ice can lead you to figuring out how to get her to have a threesome. You must always remember to never push or force her into it, always be gentle and classy, take it slow, and respect her wishes. Once you find out she is willing, there are another slew of rules to follow; but more on that later.