This article was written by Jordan

You’ve all been through it; all had the unpleasant trials and tribulations of trying to sack the ‘all elusive one’. She’s unobtainable and you don’t understand why. You’re doing everything by the book, following all the rules, and putting forth your best charm; your best game is invested in trying to land this woman. But when is it time to admit defeat, throw in the towel, and walk away before you get a bruised ego you can’t repair? Well, here is when to give up on trying to date her before bad goes to worse.

1. When she laughs off everything you say, even when you are trying to be serious. This is a good indicator that she feels awkward and is no longer taking your efforts to heart. Women laugh stuff off that make them feel uncomfortable or when they don’t want to be rude and tell you to go fuck off. If she’s responding LOL to all your heartfelt texts and saying “Oh cute” to all your compliments, it’s probably time to give up.

2. If her excuses come more often than she does, it may be time to rethink some stuff. If she’s not coming out with you, even though you ask her three times a week, that’s not just a coincidence or a sign she is super busy; SHE’S AVOIDING YOU! Women who truly are interested in you will not make excuse after excuse; because they would genuinely try harder to free their calendars for a date with you. If she’s ditching you, it’s time to ditch your efforts.

3. When she flirts with your friends too much. Listen, we do love to play hard to get and we do flirt with our boyfriend’s friends but that’s all innocent. When she’s getting cozy in a booth with your buddy or rubbing his leg under the table, it’s definitely a huge red flag. When her dirty dancing with your bros gets a little too dirty; it’s time to move on. It’s not worth your labors to try and win her over when she’ not respectful enough to let you down in the first place.

When to give up on trying to date her may seem like an unclear thing but you just have to listen to your male instincts and follow the signs. No real man wants to get strung along by a game player; no matter how hot she is. If she’s playing “too hard to get” than she probably is! Ditch the bitch and go find a woman who WANTS you. Trust, when you find a girl that wants you back just as much as you want her, it’s a lot sexier and you’ll be way happier in the long run!

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